We all know the phrase timing is everything. The reason we all know it, is because it is true.
Today I witnessed the results of ill timed actions, rather, no action until it was too late. We all experience this in one way or another, big and small. in our personal lives and at our jobs. I don't want to go into details but this is the reason that this topic is on my mind.
My impatience sometimes overrides my desire to pose questions at the right time (in the right tone) and the art of waiting for the right moment to ask for (and get) what you want.
I strive to be the right mix of sensitive, inquisitive, persuasive and kind when I converse and interact with people . I have to work on my timing. I often feel like I interrupt and am too quick to answer. I am working on being a better listener and more patient and wait for just the right moment.
What happened? I know you said you didn't want to go into it, but sometimes it matters. have you ever heard the phrase, "it's just a matter of time". some times it really is inevitable that something is going to happen. Change isn't always bad especially in the long run.
ReplyDeleteVery true. What happened was inaction led to a missed opportunity for a "promotion" at work (I'll fill you in on the details in Napa) but what is interesting is you are right in a sense that even though this isn't happening now, it will probably happen in a matter of time if I exercise some patience. I must say I enjoy your insightful comments.
ReplyDeleteOh, and I think I need change every few years or so - it keeps you on your toes. I never want to become complacent.
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